10,000 Voters Cheering


We ran an excellent race and crossed the line with over 10,000 voters cheering us on. 

Running for Justice


Hello Blog Friends, It has been too long since I have had a moment to post anything to Growl 4 Justice. My life got crazy after I filed to run for State Delegate in my district in Maryland. I have NEVER run for political office before. But I have worked in State government and Annapolis…

I believe you!


Hello Survivor, I see you crouching in the cavity of darkness. I hear your sobs and see your tears. I know you are there. AND I believe you! Many years ago, I lived that darkness. I doubted myself. I doubted my memories. I was afraid. I thought I’d be a terrible advocate. I didn’t have…

Will the Real Racist(s) Please Stand Up?


Originally posted on Reluctant Xtian:
It’s about to snow here in Raleigh, which means two things: there are no pantry staples in the stores, and there is 100% chance of no school tomorrow. So I’d like to take this moment to talk about the white stuff. No, not the snow. By “white stuff” I mean…

A Savage Perp Response


Mr. Andy Savage, You and your church appear to need help writing an appropriate sexual assault perpetrator response.  Your infuriating attempt to avoid responsibility perpetuates rape culture and fails at bringing about the healing you claim you want for your victim.  If you are truly sorry for your sins and really want to make a confession to your church, please…

Depression Tip: Reach Out


Warning: Not a happy people post Yesterday, I reposted Crying in the New Year because last year’s election, grief, illness, the cold, gray skies and holidays  made 2017 a really tough year for people I love and who love them. Actually I should post it every year because for many of us, holidays are painful. Yet every…

Justice for Alabama


Thank you black women of Alabama for overcoming voter suppression to win this election for all. #ThankYouBlackWomen #ThankYouAlabama #BlackWomenVote #BlackWomenLead Congratulations Senator-elect Doug Jones! Black women won for Alabama. Black women won for America. Black women won for decency. Black women won for democracy. Black women won for equality. Black women won for women. Black women…

Growl for Alabama


Today is another eve of my sanity. In just a few hours, men and women in Alabama will leave their homes to vote for a new senator. The news and my husband are trying to prepare me for another predicted fall of our Country’s morality under the veil of “religious liberty”. Religious liberty doesn’t mean…

Let’s Talk About the Classic Perp Statement


Almost every day there is a new disgusting sexual harassment or assault allegation about someone in Hollywood or running for office. Each new #MeToo testimony is a Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder PTSD trigger to my own experiences.  I don’t enjoy these mild to chair holding panic attacks but I am grateful for every brave women with the courage…

Looking for the Magic Bullet


I’m looking for the magic bullet that was the last bullet of  American carnage. We need to stop the bloodshed of our fellow Americans. The families and friends of over 640 victims killed by legally purchased guns wish the magic bullet was found before they lost their loved one to gun violence. America wake up!  We…

Neighbors 101


Some neighbors are lovable and others are not so huggable.   No one likes the nosey neighbor who is always spreading gossip or criticizing us, our house or children.  The creepy neighbor who seems to always pop out of the bushes is scary.   And no one likes the infuriating neighbor who always lets and leaves their…